Why do the outbursts occur? You are on the crossroads, you don't know how to proceed? Now people come , they give a a lot of reviews, a still more number of feedbacks and don't tell you how to proceed?
As I see to it , there is a step-wise manner for everything, you teach a little 2-year old "B for Boy"....... now you go on asking him "R for" , "X for". What will that toddler do? First three times, he will answer what he knows and that is boy for each and every question you ask. All these times he was expecting you will give the solutions but you give feedbacks, more and more questions.. all these times the little one was enthusiastic.. a little by little enthusiasm decreasing, at the fourth and fifth times he is bound to cry or become angry.
How can you expect with people that they improve by themselves. Of course self-learning exists but when a person is at the crossroads please don't play with him. Do not go on telling her that this way you can walk, or that way is better, suggest a method to come out of it. Do not make the web more tighter for her. She can die of suffocation.
Then the outbursts are bound to occur in the form of cries, anger or frustration. When a person is in dilemma please do not put him in much more troubles, give some solutions to him if only you can , else stay away!!!!
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Thursday, February 3, 2011
A thought on song
"Someday we will know", a beautiful song with touching lyrics... Someday we will know, sometimes we dont ever come to know what happened, what din't. A friend loss, a relation broke, some dear one's sudden demise, a parting not clear, der are somethings which are beyond understanding. These are lost.
I was thinking that many a times it so happens we are parted in such a way that we are unable to understand what happened. People don't speak and go away.. Many a times death parts people forever and so many questions, feelings, answers , expressions remain inside both the persons. These are lost forever, now they will be painful more than ever because no matter how many times you shout the words, they will never reach the intended person.
For people who are alive and don't communicate for come whatever may reasons , I want to say "Give it, give the relationship one last try, try to the fullest, not for somebody else's sake but for your own peace of mind. Try for once. Then at least you will be saved from the regret of not tying out the relationship."
Someday we'll know y the sky is blue, someday we'll know why i wasn't the one for you.........
The song moves on and on, and i get the feeling that there are already enough mysteries to reveal, lets not create new ones, lets not get entangled in these shackles of hatred, jealousy and many more... Why not have a pure heart, a fresh and clear mind, keep your heart light, happy, say whatever you want to straightforwardly , don't keep inside , you will feel better.
I was thinking that many a times it so happens we are parted in such a way that we are unable to understand what happened. People don't speak and go away.. Many a times death parts people forever and so many questions, feelings, answers , expressions remain inside both the persons. These are lost forever, now they will be painful more than ever because no matter how many times you shout the words, they will never reach the intended person.
For people who are alive and don't communicate for come whatever may reasons , I want to say "Give it, give the relationship one last try, try to the fullest, not for somebody else's sake but for your own peace of mind. Try for once. Then at least you will be saved from the regret of not tying out the relationship."
Someday we'll know y the sky is blue, someday we'll know why i wasn't the one for you.........
The song moves on and on, and i get the feeling that there are already enough mysteries to reveal, lets not create new ones, lets not get entangled in these shackles of hatred, jealousy and many more... Why not have a pure heart, a fresh and clear mind, keep your heart light, happy, say whatever you want to straightforwardly , don't keep inside , you will feel better.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
FEELINGS
I think human beings are the most blessed ones since they are able to express their feelings... A heart to love, a dear one to hear, a sweet pal to share, parents to respect, siblings for everything... to share to express........ means a lot.
A desire unexpressed, a heart unsaid, a feeling unfolded may put you in pain. If it has the power to bring happiness around you, it can be chilly cold inside you when you don't speak..
Some people take a long time to open up, we call them reserved, some open up instantaneously, we call them extrovert, why is it so?
We feel these assumptions are true, but they can be utterly wrong. May be the person who speaks instantaneously just fans his inner feelings very well, may be the person who is reserved actually is judging you whether you are credible enough to be spoken to?
A person who always laughs is not necessarily happy, it may be the case he doesn't want to show the whole world his sorrows. Similarly it may happen you become friends and you think you are good at knowing each other, understanding the work and emotions and you may think you have found love... but it may not be the case...
Feelings wreak a havoc , they may play games and you may feel entrapped in their spell, it is not always the case that you get to know your heart clearly, sometimes it is beyond our own self.
Try not to hide these, go on , speak out, of course to the ones you consider worthy enough to show your feelings. I expect everyone to have somebody to share, to care and to say "yes i m there for you, don't ask why cos i don't the answer myself". Just express yourself and try to understand your feelings, take breaks form your busy hectic life, go for a leisurely walk, life will teach you a lot......
A desire unexpressed, a heart unsaid, a feeling unfolded may put you in pain. If it has the power to bring happiness around you, it can be chilly cold inside you when you don't speak..
Some people take a long time to open up, we call them reserved, some open up instantaneously, we call them extrovert, why is it so?
We feel these assumptions are true, but they can be utterly wrong. May be the person who speaks instantaneously just fans his inner feelings very well, may be the person who is reserved actually is judging you whether you are credible enough to be spoken to?
A person who always laughs is not necessarily happy, it may be the case he doesn't want to show the whole world his sorrows. Similarly it may happen you become friends and you think you are good at knowing each other, understanding the work and emotions and you may think you have found love... but it may not be the case...
Feelings wreak a havoc , they may play games and you may feel entrapped in their spell, it is not always the case that you get to know your heart clearly, sometimes it is beyond our own self.
“You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel.”I am not only talking about love here, feelings never mean love only, the words are though interrelated,but not one and the same. They can be anger, outburst, cries, shrieks as well.......
Try not to hide these, go on , speak out, of course to the ones you consider worthy enough to show your feelings. I expect everyone to have somebody to share, to care and to say "yes i m there for you, don't ask why cos i don't the answer myself". Just express yourself and try to understand your feelings, take breaks form your busy hectic life, go for a leisurely walk, life will teach you a lot......
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