Dilemma..

Why do the outbursts occur? You are on the crossroads, you don't know how to proceed? Now people come , they give a a lot of reviews, a still more number of feedbacks and don't tell you how to proceed?

As I see to it , there is a step-wise manner for everything, you teach a little 2-year old "B for Boy"....... now you go on asking him "R for" , "X for". What will that toddler do? First three times, he will answer what he knows and that is boy for each and every question you ask. All these times he was expecting you will give the solutions but you give feedbacks, more and more questions.. all these times the little one was enthusiastic.. a little by little enthusiasm decreasing, at the fourth and fifth times he is bound to cry or become angry.

How can you expect with people that they improve by themselves. Of course self-learning exists but when a person is at the crossroads please don't play with him. Do not go on telling her that this way you can walk, or that way is better, suggest a method to come out of it. Do not make the web more tighter for her. She can die of suffocation.

Then the outbursts are bound to occur in the form of cries, anger or frustration. When a person is in dilemma please do not put him in much more troubles, give some solutions to him if only you can , else stay away!!!!