Suggestions

There are a lot of people who give you a lot, may be a million suggestions you might have received till now. Most of them free of cost, some you might have asked, like on request... What did they do to u? Disturbed you, groomed you as a person, irritated, irked or mesmerized you!!!!!!!!

See there can be a lot many effects of these so called suggestions or as we "modern race" puts it "advices". There can be still more reasons for people to give it. Lets analyze both: the reasons and the effects.

Everything starts with reason, so what can be the reason of we advising others or people giving you advices. First, they are in the habit of commenting on everything. Second, may be, they think they are smarter and actually help us out by advising us. Third, they feel we desperately need help on clothes, style of reading, walking, talking, eating,......... what not!!! Fourth may be they just feel they can improve others..

Now as I said above .. the the effects First, the person accepts every advice and is happy to hear the advices. Second may be will hear, wont react, but quietly rejects. Third, may be, he will shout out as to "Man, I don't need it. Keep it with you!!"

So what am I trying to say through all this nitpicking. Its a simple opinion, don't give suggestions or advices in all the situations. Stop commenting on everything. Please try and understand that you don't need to always guide people like saints, you don't need to preach.
See even if your advices are good, they will not prove any worth because people will not like it as you always show your goodness. Forget the people, MAINTAIN YOUR OWN DIGNITY.

Lets understand it this way, if a person actually needs help, go help in secret, not publicly, only if you are too worried about he/she. And if they are not asking you, use your brains, Gosh, they don't need it, Right????

May be your intentions are right, but you will be taken wrongly my dear friends, so be careful. To all those dear ones who know all this and still continue with their superior ways of advising, may be I will say, go on till one day you get the severe blows from somebody.

the point here is simple, the world accepts wise people because they seldom speak but when they speak, they mesmerize you and mind it, they never give suggestions free of cost!!!!

The actual driving statements for me....

At times we feel that all these inspiring quotes and all these motivating stories are fake.. It did happen to me. I was lost, not ready to listen to anything not to my heart , not firends, neither teachers nor family....

I was browsing and just surfing , I got all these together at some place , posting them for you, whenever you read all these together you will understand a lot, a feeling of elation, self-confidence and self-rebuke all together... just go through them..


Leave no stone unturned.
If you would create something, you must be something.
Every artist was first an amateur.
The power of imagination make us infinite.
Try not to become a man of success, but a man of value.
There is no beauty, but the beauty of action.
Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action.
Well done is better than well said.
To catch lots of fish, you must first go to the water.
Procrastination is the thief of time.
Life is what happens to you while you are making other plans.
You pile up enough tomorrows, and you'll find you've collected a lot of empty yesterdays.
One does evil enough when one does nothing good.