Suggestions

There are a lot of people who give you a lot, may be a million suggestions you might have received till now. Most of them free of cost, some you might have asked, like on request... What did they do to u? Disturbed you, groomed you as a person, irritated, irked or mesmerized you!!!!!!!!

See there can be a lot many effects of these so called suggestions or as we "modern race" puts it "advices". There can be still more reasons for people to give it. Lets analyze both: the reasons and the effects.

Everything starts with reason, so what can be the reason of we advising others or people giving you advices. First, they are in the habit of commenting on everything. Second, may be, they think they are smarter and actually help us out by advising us. Third, they feel we desperately need help on clothes, style of reading, walking, talking, eating,......... what not!!! Fourth may be they just feel they can improve others..

Now as I said above .. the the effects First, the person accepts every advice and is happy to hear the advices. Second may be will hear, wont react, but quietly rejects. Third, may be, he will shout out as to "Man, I don't need it. Keep it with you!!"

So what am I trying to say through all this nitpicking. Its a simple opinion, don't give suggestions or advices in all the situations. Stop commenting on everything. Please try and understand that you don't need to always guide people like saints, you don't need to preach.
See even if your advices are good, they will not prove any worth because people will not like it as you always show your goodness. Forget the people, MAINTAIN YOUR OWN DIGNITY.

Lets understand it this way, if a person actually needs help, go help in secret, not publicly, only if you are too worried about he/she. And if they are not asking you, use your brains, Gosh, they don't need it, Right????

May be your intentions are right, but you will be taken wrongly my dear friends, so be careful. To all those dear ones who know all this and still continue with their superior ways of advising, may be I will say, go on till one day you get the severe blows from somebody.

the point here is simple, the world accepts wise people because they seldom speak but when they speak, they mesmerize you and mind it, they never give suggestions free of cost!!!!