A learning.. the way I percieve it

It has just been a routine day, even more than that I attended five lectures today and in a b-school that is an achievement. Well what to do? Can't bunk since attendance creates trouble.

I have learned something out here. Initially I used to crib a lot but now the cribbing has reduced. I actually implemented something and it worked. I had heard a lot that if you try smiling slowly it will come into your nature and happiness will be your attitude. All used to say that you don't have to build a long term relationship but at least you can smile and bid a "hi" to people. The reaction will be a smile for sure but I never believed that. Well sometimes its not also but be positive or you can apply my funda "smile where you think it will be replicated!! :P".

It so happened that I started to believe that I am alone and there is nobody to be friends with. Today also the scenario has remained the same but I have learned to make these short-term relationships. I do smile now. My smile is back and I am now trying hard to smile and put my face happy.

You may say that it is diplomacy. Well lets put it like this "90% of the people in the world are happy if you are in trouble and the rest 10% don't care what happens to you." This itself makes things clear. Why to show your troubles or pains to anybody. Let the world believe that you are a happy-go-lucky kinda person.

But this doesn't mean that you don't show your troubles to anyone. Show them to the people whom you think are genuine, are your friends or to your family. 

The thing is be yourself but don't show the pains, the more you show, the more the people will dislike you and the intensity will increase. Also its not about people liking or disliking you, its all about how you feel, just start feeling good and you will be all right. Trust me its true. The reason is you can't change the circumstances then why to show your troubles. Just be happy yaar. Always say to yourself "Its a beautiful day".  Well time to stop chitchat. So today's morale is "Be happy my dear friend. There is no-one who is without pains but people know how to put them behind and walk. Try my friend try as I am trying and we will win".

The Sweet Confusionss.......

Love as you may call it...is the best thing on earth. Love is nature, love is heart, love is life, love is everything.
It is very obvious for all of us to fall in love with our parents, our family, our work, our hobbies and the one you are waiting for "the Special Someone".

"Kuch iss tarah teri palkein meri palkon pe saja de, aansoon tere saare.." the song is on and the other one "aankhon k saagar".

I don't know but these songs have a different touch. 

They have a particular pain in them. Love teaches us to have first those butterflies in the stomach, den those little playful acts of meeting and departing, the silly fights...But the best part is when you start feeling the pains of others. If you can actually feel the pain, the sadness of other, you have reached the zenith of love.

Its not always about the sweet butterflies or the pain or the meetings. Sometimes its greater than that as well. When you don't speak to the other about your feelings as you know he/she might get upset or he/she has somebody in life and you do not want to lose him/her forever.

Sometimes its even to the extent of leaving somebody and smiling just to prove that "I am ok". The words are lost. He doesn't speak to her, she never says anything and they both depart painfully. But the  pain is always there whether its case of one-sidedness or whether break-ups.

Now you may be thinking that there is so much negativity in my posts, I am always crying or yelling. Well in this post also I have first brought the most beautiful emotion of the world and then here also the negativity has cropped up. No, my dear readers, I am trying to say that "Please beware of your feelings; they can mislead you, love is a very special feeling but do not mix it up with your fantasies or infatuations. It is beautiful but it has the power to give you lots and lots of pains, Be careful about your feelings, your chills, the special someone may be wrong as well."

But what am I doing? Am I trying to mislead you from the path of love?? Am I that cruel? Am I trying to say that your Mr./Miss Perfect is wrong?

No no no no ................................................................................................................................................

Its just that I am telling that many a times we feel that we love somebody but actually its not so. We have just mixed our feelings so well that we feel its love. Its not like that always. Many a times these sweet feelings are lost as and when you get to know the real person. Your feelings might be very strong but please check them hundred times. These words "I love You" are very special and tell them to a real gem with whom you can actually spend a lifetime.

Its a very great feeling to have somebody who is there in your heart, whose voice is like violin to you, you feel great when he/she looks at you, you want to be lost with him/her...................

These are the best moments of every body's life Those chills, that moment when you first see him/her, the very first sights and that very first thought of love.

The sweet confusions between people when they take friendship as love.. the moment when you skip a beat of your heart, the flawless perfect moments when the life comes to a standstill, make sure these always remain perfect. Face these confusions and decide whether you actually love that friend or not. It ca be very painful if realize after sometime that the person is wrong...............................................



But as far as this post is concerned on a lighter note enjoy those confusions as well cos you and only you are going to smile at them later in the arms of your special someone..




I pray may you get the best and the most deserving someone...........