It has just been a routine day, even more than that I attended five lectures today and in a b-school that is an achievement. Well what to do? Can't bunk since attendance creates trouble.
I have learned something out here. Initially I used to crib a lot but now the cribbing has reduced. I actually implemented something and it worked. I had heard a lot that if you try smiling slowly it will come into your nature and happiness will be your attitude. All used to say that you don't have to build a long term relationship but at least you can smile and bid a "hi" to people. The reaction will be a smile for sure but I never believed that. Well sometimes its not also but be positive or you can apply my funda "smile where you think it will be replicated!! :P".
It so happened that I started to believe that I am alone and there is nobody to be friends with. Today also the scenario has remained the same but I have learned to make these short-term relationships. I do smile now. My smile is back and I am now trying hard to smile and put my face happy.
You may say that it is diplomacy. Well lets put it like this "90% of the people in the world are happy if you are in trouble and the rest 10% don't care what happens to you." This itself makes things clear. Why to show your troubles or pains to anybody. Let the world believe that you are a happy-go-lucky kinda person.
But this doesn't mean that you don't show your troubles to anyone. Show them to the people whom you think are genuine, are your friends or to your family.
The thing is be yourself but don't show the pains, the more you show, the more the people will dislike you and the intensity will increase. Also its not about people liking or disliking you, its all about how you feel, just start feeling good and you will be all right. Trust me its true. The reason is you can't change the circumstances then why to show your troubles. Just be happy yaar. Always say to yourself "Its a beautiful day". Well time to stop chitchat. So today's morale is "Be happy my dear friend. There is no-one who is without pains but people know how to put them behind and walk. Try my friend try as I am trying and we will win".
I have learned something out here. Initially I used to crib a lot but now the cribbing has reduced. I actually implemented something and it worked. I had heard a lot that if you try smiling slowly it will come into your nature and happiness will be your attitude. All used to say that you don't have to build a long term relationship but at least you can smile and bid a "hi" to people. The reaction will be a smile for sure but I never believed that. Well sometimes its not also but be positive or you can apply my funda "smile where you think it will be replicated!! :P".
It so happened that I started to believe that I am alone and there is nobody to be friends with. Today also the scenario has remained the same but I have learned to make these short-term relationships. I do smile now. My smile is back and I am now trying hard to smile and put my face happy.
You may say that it is diplomacy. Well lets put it like this "90% of the people in the world are happy if you are in trouble and the rest 10% don't care what happens to you." This itself makes things clear. Why to show your troubles or pains to anybody. Let the world believe that you are a happy-go-lucky kinda person.
But this doesn't mean that you don't show your troubles to anyone. Show them to the people whom you think are genuine, are your friends or to your family.
The thing is be yourself but don't show the pains, the more you show, the more the people will dislike you and the intensity will increase. Also its not about people liking or disliking you, its all about how you feel, just start feeling good and you will be all right. Trust me its true. The reason is you can't change the circumstances then why to show your troubles. Just be happy yaar. Always say to yourself "Its a beautiful day". Well time to stop chitchat. So today's morale is "Be happy my dear friend. There is no-one who is without pains but people know how to put them behind and walk. Try my friend try as I am trying and we will win".
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