Fist they were not even ready to come out..then started coming to eat (as for the personal interest) and now they start playing as soon as I go and sometimes it even seems to me that as if they are waiting for me............
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This is the context of the six small puppies here at my university. They live in the bushes under their shades and never dare to come out. Very small, so delicate these puppies are, it sometimes that even by a touch they are afraid. The lines above describe my relationship with them.
And with this I started thinking about how human relationships develop and prosper. At the same time also about what is the difference between developing relationships with pets and humans.
I could get one thing, all these relationships start with some kind of personal benefit to one party and then for the selfless satisfaction of the heart and soul. But why do the relationships with humans fail and with pets it continues even you do not feed them.
Perhaps humans continuously want self benefits and as soon as this comes to an end, sooner or later the relationships vanish. Then the friends turn to acquaintances and sometimes even to the state of being strangers!!!!!!!!!!!!
There are many incidences when such people come into your contact, they complete their selfish motives and then leave you. Now the question is what to do if you come to know that these relationships are mean and will last only till the purpose of the other is served. Should we continue or should we stop or should we start calculating our own profits from the relationship??The question is a queer one and I have not got any answers to it.
As far as I am concerned I generally behave in a normal way as I would even if knowing that the person is just fulfilling his self-interest with me. But somehow I have not got the ability to hide the fact that "Hey Mr I know your inner motives" look should be curtailed. It somehow appears in my actions and gestures which should be curtailed. I am trying to work for it and will advise the same to you my dear friend. But yes one thing is for sure though I make the person realize but I never ever ignore his/her work,
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As the destiny says.........
karm kar phal ki ichhchhha mat kar..
Do your work and forget about the fruits....:)
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This is the context of the six small puppies here at my university. They live in the bushes under their shades and never dare to come out. Very small, so delicate these puppies are, it sometimes that even by a touch they are afraid. The lines above describe my relationship with them.
And with this I started thinking about how human relationships develop and prosper. At the same time also about what is the difference between developing relationships with pets and humans.
I could get one thing, all these relationships start with some kind of personal benefit to one party and then for the selfless satisfaction of the heart and soul. But why do the relationships with humans fail and with pets it continues even you do not feed them.
Perhaps humans continuously want self benefits and as soon as this comes to an end, sooner or later the relationships vanish. Then the friends turn to acquaintances and sometimes even to the state of being strangers!!!!!!!!!!!!
There are many incidences when such people come into your contact, they complete their selfish motives and then leave you. Now the question is what to do if you come to know that these relationships are mean and will last only till the purpose of the other is served. Should we continue or should we stop or should we start calculating our own profits from the relationship??The question is a queer one and I have not got any answers to it.
As far as I am concerned I generally behave in a normal way as I would even if knowing that the person is just fulfilling his self-interest with me. But somehow I have not got the ability to hide the fact that "Hey Mr I know your inner motives" look should be curtailed. It somehow appears in my actions and gestures which should be curtailed. I am trying to work for it and will advise the same to you my dear friend. But yes one thing is for sure though I make the person realize but I never ever ignore his/her work,
................................................................
As the destiny says.........
karm kar phal ki ichhchhha mat kar..
Do your work and forget about the fruits....:)
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