I never believed I could be in bliss too, but I attained. I also never felt that I can be realistic, but now I believe in all this.
Sometimes we feel that destiny is not with us. There are no silver linings. Life seems to be harsh , all plans go wrong and we are left alone. And mind you, all bads will occur together, everything, every moment seems to be cursing us. We don't understand any part, neither good nor bad.
There are times when hope fails, life comes to a standstill. Nobody seems to be appreciating. Life seems to have lost all its rewarding experiences. We look at all aspects in vain. All the relations go lost, we start to live all alone.
Life becomes a marsh, however hard you try, you won't be out of it. You will stop feeling the moistness of dew, the beauty of grass, the silence of a fresh morning, the pretty loneliness of the evenings, the cute teasing of friends..
This all happens to us at one point or other to all. There is no way to come of it. Somebody actually has written
You actually will feel better once you accept them. If you are a one-sided lover(say, I pray nobody becomes 1), then do accept the fact that the other person doesn't love you. If you have actually problems in understanding a subject, go on, do accept ki that you don't know. My teacher once said a beautiful line
1 Your mind, body and soul are all together and at ease with your failure.
2 When you actually feel that you are fail then you feel the heat of being in that state. Till now you were running but now the only thing in your mind will be "I am fail." this very sentence will make you work.
Have you ever heard of phoenix????A unique bird that lived for five or six centuries in the Arabian desert, after this time burning itself on a funeral pyre and rising from the ashes with renewed youth to live through another cycle.
Try looking at yourself with a new mirror after all has been burnt out. I know its easy to write, to advise but hard to follow. But this is real experience. When you feel negative , go to its heights. Let all of it come out, cry wildly, shout madly, let there be the biggest shriek from you. Let all of it come out. Become a phoenix, burn yourself down (I mean burn your whole soul negatives).
Now when you will see that you feel better. Actually till now you were trying to clean yourself partly. Understand that sometimes we need a full cleaning of the soul.
Try for this cleansing by doing your own soul search. Don't ask questions, nopes, just look at yourself and find out some good points for your personality. We can't be angry with ourself . Don't keep any guilts. Its ok if you have made mistakes after all you are a human being.
After this search a confidant, a true person in whom you can confide. Speak out, speak your soul to him/her.
Believe me the next day sun will be more brighter, the grass more greener, the energy of your soul double , the moistness of the dew will drench you and butterflies will haunt you!!!!!!!!!!
Sometimes we feel that destiny is not with us. There are no silver linings. Life seems to be harsh , all plans go wrong and we are left alone. And mind you, all bads will occur together, everything, every moment seems to be cursing us. We don't understand any part, neither good nor bad.
There are times when hope fails, life comes to a standstill. Nobody seems to be appreciating. Life seems to have lost all its rewarding experiences. We look at all aspects in vain. All the relations go lost, we start to live all alone.
Life becomes a marsh, however hard you try, you won't be out of it. You will stop feeling the moistness of dew, the beauty of grass, the silence of a fresh morning, the pretty loneliness of the evenings, the cute teasing of friends..
This all happens to us at one point or other to all. There is no way to come of it. Somebody actually has written
"Don't tell me the problem is a difficult one. If it wouldn't hav been difficult, it wouldn't have been a problem."There will be problems.., of course, life becomes useless if we don't have them. Believe in it. Take these words "Problems are good for my health. They actually make me human."
You actually will feel better once you accept them. If you are a one-sided lover(say, I pray nobody becomes 1), then do accept the fact that the other person doesn't love you. If you have actually problems in understanding a subject, go on, do accept ki that you don't know. My teacher once said a beautiful line
" 99% of the problems will be solved if people are able to save themselves from their own selves."Yes, you got it correct!!! We are in the problems because we are not at ease with our faults/shortcomings. Accept the problems, start believing in this,
"Sadness is a part of me. Go on and try to reach the height of sadness. Analyze this height and you will find a solution yourself , from inside your soul."For example if you start you will fail in exams and because of it you are unable to study. First of all come at ease with it. We become disturbed because we start thinking how can I fail?? what will people think?? Leave all this accept that you are fail. Trust me that very moment you will be relaxed. Now when you are at ease with the problem , start working. You will work with twice your efficiency because:
1 Your mind, body and soul are all together and at ease with your failure.
2 When you actually feel that you are fail then you feel the heat of being in that state. Till now you were running but now the only thing in your mind will be "I am fail." this very sentence will make you work.
Have you ever heard of phoenix????A unique bird that lived for five or six centuries in the Arabian desert, after this time burning itself on a funeral pyre and rising from the ashes with renewed youth to live through another cycle.
Try looking at yourself with a new mirror after all has been burnt out. I know its easy to write, to advise but hard to follow. But this is real experience. When you feel negative , go to its heights. Let all of it come out, cry wildly, shout madly, let there be the biggest shriek from you. Let all of it come out. Become a phoenix, burn yourself down (I mean burn your whole soul negatives).
Now when you will see that you feel better. Actually till now you were trying to clean yourself partly. Understand that sometimes we need a full cleaning of the soul.
Try for this cleansing by doing your own soul search. Don't ask questions, nopes, just look at yourself and find out some good points for your personality. We can't be angry with ourself . Don't keep any guilts. Its ok if you have made mistakes after all you are a human being.
After this search a confidant, a true person in whom you can confide. Speak out, speak your soul to him/her.
Believe me the next day sun will be more brighter, the grass more greener, the energy of your soul double , the moistness of the dew will drench you and butterflies will haunt you!!!!!!!!!!
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